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Robert was the co-founder of Cuddli, a dating app for geeks. The startup was based in the US but they had their development team in Croatia. Media features grew the app to 100k users but a combination of a small market and their inability to monetize the app forced the startup to shut down.

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Hi Robert! What's your background, and what are you currently working on?

I spent 13 years at Microsoft, working my way up from a technical writer to eventually running IT for, and reporting to the head of, Microsoft Research Asia while living and working in Beijing.

When it was time to leave Beijing, I decided to leave Microsoft and go for an international MBA in The Netherlands. For part of the program, I was an exchange student at INCAE in Costa Rica where I took a class in entrepreneurship and venture capital. During the course of that class, I got really excited about the possibility of leveraging my software skills into a startup, and the plans for Cuddli began to take shape. I worked on Cuddli with the team until the end of 2016. We were extreme bootstrappers and kept Cuddli alive through sheer force of will, but it never found a large enough market.

I currently work as a senior information security architect for the State of Washington. As it turns out, I learned a lot about security keeping users of our app safe. However, this was a limited time gig, it’s wrapping up, and the economy has apparently just collapsed amid a Coronavirus pandemic. I have my next role lined up after this (in theory), but ask me again in a few months whether it panned out or whether I’m even still alive. Also, if the airline industry ever becomes operational again (as I write this, global air traffic is heading toward a full ground stop), I help people book trips with their miles and points at my company AwardCat.

What motivated you to start Cuddli?

I wasn’t single when I moved to The Netherlands to start my MBA, but the relationship ended shortly after I relocated to Europe. I started using dating apps and the user experience was (and remains) incredibly frustrating. The basic business model of freemium dating apps (which is the vast majority of the market) is to introduce friction and charge users to remove it. This fundamentally puts the core interest of users (meeting people) at odds with the dating app’s business model.

I thought there was a better way to build a dating app and started from a business perspective on the problem (by the way, this sounds logical but was a fundamental error). What if a dating app, in its very design, had aligned interests with the users? That was the fundamental principle in starting Cuddli: it started with a business idea (which I still think is a good one) and worked backward from that into finding a market, rather than starting with a motivated group of users and finding a workable business model from there.

I also sought feedback from investors. They raised all sorts of (valid) problems with dating apps, such as the audience constantly changing, user churn (people had no reason to continue using an app after they met), etc. We solved for virtually all of these in the app design.

How did you build it?

I went to visit my friend Steve in Croatia. We both grew up in the Seattle area but he fell in love with a Croatian girl and ended up moving there. We were talking about my relationship frustrations, the business idea, and the explosive growth of Tinder and we decided that we were going to build this thing.

Top-notch mobile app developers were affordable in Croatia, Steve is a developer himself and he could write the back end server code, and our mutual friend Pinguino joined as the third co-founder two weeks later (she’s an amazing designer and as it turns out, also the best boss I have ever worked for).

I started as CEO and later became COO, and took care of the business side of things.

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Which were your marketing strategies to grow your business?

We thought the app would sell itself. It was packed with amazing features that no other dating app had (there was no friction for users at all, every feature of the app was available for unpaid users), the design was incredible, and we threw a really great launch party in LA. We launched on Android first, since that had 90% of the mobile market at the time (everyone else was launching on iOS). We had, on a punch list, addressed every concern investors could possibly have about the sustainability of the business model. We honestly thought that the app was so well designed, so accessible, and removed so much friction that it would naturally take off. Our first indication that we’d made a really big mistake by launching on Android is when every single tech blogger and reporter who showed up at our launch party had an iPhone.

Little did we know at the time that it’s really hard to grow the audience for a dating app. Earned media is almost essential, and I really blew it by deciding to launch on Android. This was an absolutely critical error, and we’d have saved ourselves a lot of time and money by just shutting down then.

Most dating apps are segmentation plays, and there is only room for a couple of market leaders who can take advantage of a technology shift. Unfortunately, Grindr, Tinder, and Bumble had been first to market on mobile and had captured the vast majority of broad-based audiences. All that was really left were segmentation plays.

We also quickly discovered that we had almost nothing in common with mainstream audiences, so couldn’t create relatable marketing collateral for these audiences on our own. We’re all geeks, so what we did that eventually worked was to revert to our authentic selves. We tweaked the app to relate to geeks like us, and we started promoting the app in person to geek audiences at geek events like comic-cons and anime conferences. This truly resonated--we were a dating app by and for geeks. We started to get earned media coverage, became one of the top dating apps in Spain (for some reason, the app wasn’t in Spanish and we had never done any marketing there), and we literally created the category of geek dating apps, becoming the #1 app in the category.

People loved our app so much that they asked us how they could help. We responded by sending them “Ambassador Packs” with a Cuddli T-shirt, flyers and stickers which they could distribute at their favorite geek spots to help Cuddli grow. Yes, users loved our app so much that they were literally doing work for free to help us grow. I’d like to say that our marketing was deliberate brilliance but we literally just made things up as we went along and doubled down on everything we found that was working.

Unfortunately, it wasn’t a large enough category, which I’ll get to in the next section.

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Which were the causes of Cuddli failure?

Most startups fail because of founder infighting, running out of venture capital, or a failure to find product-market fit. We built Cuddli ourselves, and never took outside investment. We all remain good friends and have worked on other projects together. And we had an excellent product-market fit: we were the #1 app in our category, with over 100,000 users and creating thousands of beautifully geeky “Cuddli couples.”

So why did we give up, after four long, hard years of building a category-leading app (and after I invested my entire life’s savings)? We simply had no path to profitability or to exit, and we were all out of personal runway. We knew that we needed to either sell or close the app.

Our core plan for monetization was clever, but incredibly difficult to execute because we were just too early. We integrated Foursquare into the app and built a date scheduler. Because we could prove that our users visited a physical location, we thought restaurants, bars, and other date spots would be excited to partner with us. The reception was lukewarm at best - these are businesses that operate on razor-thin margins so selling to them is tough, and getting paid is even tougher. If I had to do this over again, I’d partner with Airbnb and sell their experiences as date experiences (this wasn’t an option since Airbnb initially launched “Experiences” shortly before we shut down).

We also sold custom digital stickers in the app, along the lines of LINE. We spent weeks and thousands of dollars building the functionality to do so, and I think we only ever sold 3 of them.

In the end, when we were looking to sell the app itself, nobody wanted to buy it except for spammers who would do terrible, unethical things with it. We were strongly values-driven (to the point that our values were on our front page), and put our money where our mouths were, refusing to sell to anyone who wouldn’t uphold them. We ultimately closed the app.

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Which were your biggest mistakes and challenges you had to overcome?

My biggest mistakes were (a) building the app based on a business model rather than an audience, (b) making a strategic error on the launch platform that cost us extremely valuable earned media, and (c) being the wrong CEO for the company.

I already addressed (a) and (b) above, but being the wrong CEO for the company was very important learning. One thing that I think we did right is to build the company on a foundation of values and hold ourselves accountable to them. These were ours:

• Everything we do starts and ends with people.
• We always consider our users first.
• We are all team players.
• We are humble and self-critical.
• We communicate openly and honestly.
• We solve problems, not create them.
• We deliver on our promises.
  

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Following the values of communicating openly and honestly and solving problems, not creating them, we’d have very deep conversations. Bear in mind that Pinguino, Steve, and I have all known each other for over 15 years, and we were all good friends before we started Cuddli, so we were uniquely positioned to do this. But we were also all older, and I think this helped a lot--we were more mature.

There was a point in the company where it became obvious that my marketing initiatives were gaining limited traction, Pinguino’s user acquisition initiatives were gaining considerable traction, and the most important thing our company needed to do was get users, not do MBA stuff with business models. I stepped aside as CEO and moved into a supporting role as COO and chairman of the board. Pinguino stepped up as CEO, and the fact that she did kept the company alive for another two years.

Which were your expenses? Did you achieve some revenue? In the end, how much money did you lose?

We were extreme bootstrappers. To build the app and run it for 4 years, including all software development expenses, marketing expenses, hosting expenses, corporate filing (in two countries), etc. cost a bit less than $200,000. This is because we did all of the work ourselves, apart from coding the mobile apps (the server code was written by Steve, and in parallel, he worked with developers in Croatia who built the mobile apps based on Pinguino’s design).

But at what personal costs? I lived in a neighborhood so dangerous my neighbor was murdered. I was so poor that I qualified for Medicaid. I started to look at spaces under bridges and started seriously thinking “if I lived in a tent under there, I could extend my runway.” Pinguino’s relationship with her partner became strained from lack of income. Steve lived in a Soviet-era building where--I swear I’m not making this up--raw sewage was pouring from the ceiling during one visit. We all stretched ourselves to the limit--and then some--keeping the app afloat through sheer grit and determination if not outright lunacy.

The app never made money and we lost everything we invested.

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If you had to start over, what would you do differently?

It seems painfully obvious now, but there are two things that I will not do as an entrepreneur going forward.

• I won’t put in my own money. OK, I’ve broken this rule with AwardCat but that was a really cheap business to build. It cost me less than $3,000 in coding using a great team in Ukraine (I worked with them onsite in Kyiv), and it has made considerably more than that. If I were building a crazy high risk, venture-scale startup again, I’d raise venture capital or go home. Venture investors spread risk across a portfolio but founders only have one startup.
• I’ll get paid. Fundamentally, I need a place to live, enough to eat, and health insurance. I can get a tech job with approximately zero risks so if I start a startup, my “skin in the game” is the fact that I’m working more hours and making less money than another job. Living under a bridge (although fortunately it never came to that for me) is a truly massive distraction and startups require your full attention.

Which are your favorite entrepreneurial resources?

I think the best people to learn from are other founders, at founder events. For example, WeAreLATech has an “experience club” where LA area founders can come together and enjoy an activity such as an escape room, but also have conversations with people who can uniquely relate.

Be sure to get to know founders at different stages, not only early-stage founders. Later stage founders “pay it forward” a lot and they can be invaluable sources of information; just bear in mind that they are busier than you.

Some of the least valuable sources of information are venture capitalists. They are sharks--they’re smart, but they also have sharp teeth. One huge mistake I made was listening too much to the opinions of VCs and not (at least initially) finding people who could be potential users and talking to them. VCs say they care about profitability and business models, but what they really care about is the market size and exponential growth. They want to hit as close to the bottom of a hockey stick in growth as possible. They write and talk about what they want to publicly signal they’re investing in, but a lot of their advice only sounds good with the benefit of hindsight. Also, VCs who would never really invest in your business will still kick the tires and poke all sorts of holes in it. Those holes may be both entirely valid and also not even close to the most important thing to focus on. Some will even give you advice that is borderline unethical.

Note that VCs who have invested in your company or who are personal friends are an entirely different breed. You’re part of their portfolio (or social circle) then, and your interests are (at least somewhat) aligned. An unaligned VC’s blog is an interesting data point but usually no more than that.

I think that many tech entrepreneurs “pooh-pooh” business resources in the community that are super valuable. I teach a class on startups and entrepreneurship at a local college, which is informed by the very real experiences we had. You may find a former founder teaching a similar class at your local community college. The SBA hosts workshops for prospective entrepreneurs. This is a great way to meet other founders who you won’t be competing with and may even collaborate with. It’s also very much worth going to pitch competitions (here’s our pitch deck, btw) to see what other startups are out there, and what investors are currently most interested in funding (this isn’t to say that you should chase trends, only to gather intelligence).

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Where can we go to learn more?

Here’s my current company, Award Cat. I also run a travel blog, which you can find here.

You should also give a read to my article: “Is your unicorn really a shark?”.

The Covid pandemic spread an epidemic of loneliness, bringing even more people back to the gaming world. Video games are more popular than ever. For some people, online communities are the only place to develop friendships, relationships, and overall valuable human interactions.

It’s no secret that gamers and geeks can sometimes be shy and socially awkward, and for some of them, games can be the only place to meet new friends and crushes. Multiplayer games, for example, are a great way to bond because they require communication and teamwork. Besides that, playing the same video game can give total strangers something to talk about. If you’re a geek, you probably have a lot to bring to the table. Your intelligence, passion, and good work ethic could be the dream combo for some girl/guy out there. Your only issue is probably that you’re too shy to come up to your crush and ask them for a date. Or maybe you’re investing everything into your work/education-related projects and have no time to meet someone special.

Lately, the geek and gamer dating sites are on rise. There are multiple apps and websites that offer convenient tools to meet that special someone or just to have a great time being in a judgment and stigma-free zone. It looks like the dating industry finally recognises the potential of nerdy communities.

Whether you’re looking for a Han Solo to your Princess Leia, a Mario to your Princess Peach, or an Ellie to your Riley, you will find all the best dating apps and websites to try out listed below.

Pure

If you’re a geek or a gamer looking for a short-term relationship or a casual hookup, the first app you need to check out is definitely the Pure app. Pure has a very diverse, welcoming, and sex positive community of users, who’re looking to find a partner for fun flirtatious chats, video calls, and maybe even a real-life date (not in times of Covid, of course).

Pure is very good with keeping your conversations safe and private. For example, if your match decides to take a screenshot of your conversation while you’re sexting, they won’t have a chance to. Besides, you’ll receive a special notification. You’ll be able to leave the conversation with your match at any time, and it will get automatically deleted from all devices.

Pure’s design is super minimalistic and it has incredible cartoon-ish illustrations, which give the app a modern artistic vibe. It’s fair to say that it’s one of the most aesthetically pleasing dating apps out there. The simplicity of the design highlights how fun and easy the whole dating experience on the app is.

Kippo

Kippo is a mobile-only dating app. While many other dating services have a desktop version for their app, it seems kind of unnecessary in 2021. We all have our mobile phones with us 24/7, and swiping is a great time killer while on the go. So no issue there, Kippo. They do have a website where you can find links to their app for iOS and Android, read about the company’s mission, and see a few cute comic strips about gamer dating. Another thing worth mentioning is that 40% of Kippo’s users are female, and the user age on average is 18 to 24.

Kippo app has a free subscription plan that lets you see 30 profiles a day and send 1 message to a new contact per day. The premium Kippo subscription costs 10$ for one month and removes all of the free version’s limitations. That’s on the low end, as far as dating app prices go.

To set up your account, you need to enter your phone number and then select your favorite games in a special card menu. You can complete your bio by filling in your gender, preferred pronouns, religious affiliation, and other info that you feel is important. Once your profile is set, you get a list of potential matches, who you can like, pass or send an opening message to.

Here’s an in-depth review of the app by a YouTuber Amanda Hardman:

LFGdating.com

While many geek-centric dating sites focus on fandoms in specific genres, LFGdating.com is a 100% gamer community focused dating site! With apps available for IOS and on GooglePlay, you can take your relationship searching with you when you have to step away from your desktop. With great technical support, including Uber SSL encryption, trust us to help you find the right connections online in our gamer-specific world. Whether you’re looking for a gaming social network, or real life love connections, LFGdating.com is one of the most established geek-oriented dating sites on the market. Premium memberships start at $5 a month, but you can save money with a one time $50 lifetime membership fee as well.

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With a free membership to Geeknerddating.com you can begin searching for love in a matter of minutes. Create a profile, upload recent pictures of yourself, and you can view profiles and flirt with one the largest membership bases of genuine geeks and nerds. While a basic membership is free, you can purchase additional functions if needed to improve your dating experience. Using a growing co-operative of online dating sites, the range of>– It’s easier to get to know people if you are shy

For some people, it’s not that easy to start a conversation when meeting someone for the first time. However, it’s a lot easier to do while you’re texting online. It takes a lot of pressure off of social interactions.

• – You can date in the comfort and safety of your own home

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You don’t have to get dressed or choose the right place for the date or waste any time while getting to your date. There’s also no physical contact involved, which makes your first date 100% safe.

• – It’s cheaper

Unlike an offline date, the online one doesn’t require you to pay for the meal and your trip to the date place multiple nights per week. The only thing you might be paying for is a dating service subscription. But as we know, most dating apps and websites offer a free subscription plan anyway.

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